1. How can I be sure the Academy for Couples Therapists is the right fit for my staff?

There are four groups of therapists who may benefit from listening to the Academy audios of sessions:

  • Therapists who’ve been working with couples for a long time, and have trained in couples therapy, but still feel stuck with many couples, get triggered by some couples, or they lose creativity and confidence. They want to become even more effective.
  • Therapists who are just starting out, who want to learn how to do couples therapy after taking one or two courses in their graduate school training on how to work with couples.
  • Therapists with some years of experience who are realizing that they need more training on how to work with couples and don’t know which framework to choose. They would like to increase the percentage of couples in their practice.
  • Therapists who don’t work with couples, but because many of their clients present with relationship issues, they want more skills in addressing the individual relationship issues that clients bring in.


2. Since I don’t know you personally, what else can you tell me about yourself, your clinical work or your teaching?

I know it’s hard to trust someone you don’t know, so I’ll tell you a bit more about myself:

I was the Coordinator of the Couples and Family Counseling Program at Northeastern Illinois University in Chicago for 18 years, where I developed the curriculum for the Couples Counseling Courses.

I have been working with couples for decades. I have a reputation in the Chicago community where I live and practice as someone who is very effective with difficult cases.

I get requests from seasoned couples’ therapists to consult about their couples cases. They find my approach very helpful.

I have created a Facebook group where you can see some of my work

In addition to the Academy, I run supervision groups where I discuss couples therapy cases only with the clinicians who are members of the group.

I write and publish articles for couples’ therapists in blogs, magazines and professional journals, most recently these two:

  1. Working with couples online: Challenges and opportunities
  2. Working with conflict avoidant men

Finally, I write a blog about topics helpful for couples therapists. Reading my blog will give you a better idea of how I think and what I do.


3. Money is tight right now, why should I purchase access to the Academy sessions?

Only you can decide what you can afford, but one way to think about the Academy is that for the rate, your staff will get at least 2 hours of outstanding materials for less than the price of one couples therapy consultation per month for 12 months.


4. How is the Academy for Couples Therapists different from other trainings?

Most other trainings focus on one framework only and don’t offer 12 live full sessions. On The Academy for Couples Therapists site, your staff will hear how I integrate various frameworks including The Gottman Method, EFT, the Developmental model, intergenerational, psychodynamic, and Solution Focused/Narrative therapy approaches.

When you hear how I conduct sessions with couples at different stages of the treatment process, and when you hear lessons about what frameworks to use and when, your staff will become more creative, more confident, and more competent.


5. My staff does not have a lot of time to devote to training, is this the right, how is this going to work for them?

Your staff could do this in under 2 hours a month. Remember, they are given a one-year access to the site to complete 12 Modules.

The first time you log in to the site, you will have to spend a little time getting acquainted with the site, read a welcome email, and a document that spells out what you they expect to learn.

If don’t think your staff will have the time needed to devote to the Academy, this may not be a good fit for them at this time.


6. I am not tech savvy; will this be a problem?

No. Once you click on a module after log in, you will be able to hear the session and the lesson on your phone, desktop, laptop or tablet. You can download the PDF of the lesson and the tools from the toolbox. It’s a really simple site to navigate.


7. What is your cancellation and refund policy?

You can listen to one Module for free. Once you decide on the purchase, You will be charged one time for one year access. There are no refunds after that.

See the full registration terms and conditions here.

8. What else do I need to know?

With the Academy, your staff will get answers to the most important questions about doing effective couples therapy, and go from feeling like an impostor to being proud of the work you do with couples. Your staff will also get better at doing relationship work, since a large percentage of individual clients present with relationship issues.

Here are some of the questions you will be getting answers to inside of the Academy for Couples Therapists:

  • How do I become a confident leader in my sessions with couples?
  • What do I say when couples fight during a session?
  • My couples seem to just want to blame each other, and they don’t do their homework—how do I motivate them?
  • I’m uncomfortable with confrontation—can I get better at it?
  • Sometimes I lose empathy for one partner—how do I get it back?
  • How do I help move couples forward when they regress?
  • Do I have to use one framework, or is it ok to mix it up?


9. How can I contact you?

You can email me at sescounseling@gmail.com, If you have more questions or to set up a call.

I personally answer all inquiries.

The world needs good couples therapists now more than ever!